Eulogy
In funeral service etiquette usually a family member, clergy, close personal friend or business associate may provide the eulogy. However, if you are completely overwhelmed by the prospect, it is ok to decline. Just be honest and explain why, people will understand that this is a painful and emotional time. It would be difficult to keep one's composure and not break down in the middle of the eulogy. Not only would you feel embarrassed, but it would be upsetting to all attending the service.
This is a special time to share the deceased person's life, contributions, commendations, and lightly humorous personal stories. The eulogy is usually planned out and expressed in a way that gives meaning to the words. Special poems and verses can be added to personalize this event.
Family members, especially, like to hear words about their loved one. Take some time in planning this special segment of the service as it can bring peace to family and add a special touch of sharing with others the last remembrances of the loved one. Practice in front of some close friends or relatives so that you feel confident and in control on the day of the service.
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